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Winner from my Snarkology Halloween Hop post…

is Phaedra Seabolt!

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Thank you to everyone who came out and participated. No doubt there will be other giveaways up for grabs through the remainder of the holidays :-)


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Front Porch Saturday: Enough, by Jennifer Wilck

Previously posted in Fried Oreos

I’m worn out. Physically, mentally and emotionally.

I know, I’m no different from anyone else and we are all exhausted. We strive to do a million things and we convince ourselves we need to do a million things well. I think our culture prides itself on how exhausted we can be. It’s a competition, enabled by social media, judged by all the other people around you and awarded nothing.

“You can’t possibly understand how I feel. I was up at six this morning doing X.”

“Well, I was up at five doing Y. Oh, and my kids are forcing me to do Z.”

“You poor thing. My husband didn’t do Q, so now I have to do it.”

“I hear ya. Mine didn’t do R, and complained when I reminded him about it.”

And so on and so on and so on.

I’m guilty of it and somehow, no matter how many times I tell myself I’m not going to overbook, overschedule, or overcommit, I do. And I’m not even talking about my kids.

In fact, I wonder what I’m teaching them. When they tell me they studied and I wonder, well, did you study enough? When they tell me they cleaned and I wonder, is it clean enough? When they tell me they tried and I wonder, did you try hard enough?

Maybe their version of enough is actually enough. Maybe the effort doesn’t have to be the most, the best, the hardest, and it quite probably doesn’t have to equal mine. Maybe they just need to be able to look themselves in the eye and know that they are good enough.

We complain that people don’t know how to be still. We urge people to appreciate their surroundings. But does anyone actually do that? When is the last time you sat and read a book because you wanted to, or looked out the window because it was pretty? And if you did do that, was there a nagging in the back of your brain reminding you about everything you should be doing instead?

Who decided that was the goal?

Because there has to be a goal. We’ve trained ourselves to reach for the goal. But somewhere along the way, the goal has been moved so far away as to almost be unattainable. And the goal has grown, like the monster under the bed, until it’s no longer some desirable thing. It’s scary and stressful and quite possibly more effort than it’s worth.

I think it’s time to redefine that goal. I think our “best” needs to be “enough.” I think the one-upping in the “how tired are you?” has to end. I think we need to redirect our pride so that we are proud of actual accomplishments, no matter how small.

And perhaps, if we need public accolades, we’re doing it wrong.

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Snarkology Halloween Blog Hop–Love in the Moonlight by Sandra Sookoo

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Welcome to Believing is Seeing! My name is Sandra Sookoo and I’m a romance author. You’re here as part of the Snarkology Halloween blog hop, so look around and have fun! There are tons of bloggers and authors participating in this event, and besides the chance of winning the grand prize, every blog is offering their own giveaways.

Fall is my favorite time of the year. There’s just something about the vibrant colors currently happening all over the Great Lakes region. I like nothing else than getting outside and enjoying it. The riotous world makes me feel like I’m part of something bigger, like all my petty problems could melt away if only I could tarry among the fire bushes and glorious golden trees. My husband and I happened to go out to one of the local parks this weekend, and this is but one of the wonderful scenes we encountered:


Of course, arriving at Fall means Halloween, and that means candy! Er… it doesn’t? LOL Ah, then it must mean baking, because that’s what I’m doing right now (pumpkin gingersnaps to be precise) Hmm, not really? Right, then it must mean dressing up and pretending. :-) I haven’t gone to a Halloween party since I was a kid, but I always thought it might be fun to do it again sometime. Just for laughs, here’s a pic of me in elementary school. I think I was in fifth grade:


Anyway, thanks for popping into my Believing is Seeing blog. I appreciate your time. What’s your favorite part of Fall?

Answer the question and you might be the randomly drawn winner on November 1st. Winner will be decided by using Be sure to leave your contact information. All entries without an email address will not be considered.

The prize for this post only is: a paperback of Love in the Moonlight, which is a Halloween-themed antho of Halloween stories I’ve written, plus book swag.


Make sure you hit all the blogs participating! For the full list, click here.

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If you like what you see here, please visit my website to check out my books!


Fun Friday: Bram Stoker and Halloween by Karen Michelle Nutt

Bram_Stoker_1906Bram Stoker’s Dracula was published in 1897. This popular vampire tale has been an inspiration for numerous movies starring his main character Dracula, while others have starred his character Abraham Van Helsing.

Stoker’s character Count Dracula is loosely based on Vlad Dracula III, the notorious 15tVlad_Tepes_002h century Romanian warlord. Though his character’s castle was located in Transylvania.

There are many who believe Stoker inspiration for the tale actually came from his knowledge of the Irish myths about blood-sucking faeries.

Bram Stoker was born in 1847 in Dublin, Ireland. Before he penned his tale, he worked as a civil servant and was a theater critic for a local newspaper.

Christ_Church_Cathedral,_Oxford_Photograph by Mike PeelUsually a week before Halloween, Dublin, Ireland celebrates the man of goth with street performances, a musical ‘Bram Session’ in Temple Bar quarter, and a candlelight dinner in the crypt of Christ Church Cathedral. They have ghost tours that take the guests to St. Patrick’s Cathedral graveyard where the Lady in White is said to haunt. They also go to Trinity College where Bram Stoker attended. In the late 1500s, Dr. Samuel Clossey was a medical professor there and supposedly robbed graves so he could created morbid anatomical experiments. Supposedly he haunts the corridors with a bucket of human entrails.

Do you have a favorite vampire tale? Have you been on a ghost tour?


author pic Karen and Jack_2014_2 IMG_2596About the Author:
Karen Michelle Nutt resides in California with her husband, three fascinating children, and houseful of demanding pets. Jack, her Chorkie, is her writing buddy and sits long hours with her at the computer.

When she’s not time traveling, fighting outlaws, or otherworldly creatures, she creates pre-made book covers to order at Gillian’s Book Covers, “Judge Your Book By Its Cover”. You can also check out her published cover art designs at Western Trail Blazer and Rebecca J. Vickery Publishing.

Whether your reading fancy is paranormal, historical or time travel, all her stories capture the rich array of emotions that accompany the most fabulous human phenomena—falling in love.

Visit the author at her Website Blog / Gillian’s Book Covers, “Judge Your Book By Its Cover” Facebook / TwitterPinterest / Amazon Author Page

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Christ Church Cathedral by Mike Peel

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Front Porch Saturday: Crafting Cookie Cutter Ornaments

I needed to create something physical…something Christmas related…something different, so I searched the house for items to make a craft project. Cookie cutter oranments was the final product. If you’d like to get a jump on the holiday season and create homemade Christmas decorations, here are the directions.
First I dug out some old cookie cutters from the cupboard and painted them.
(You could punch a hole in the top to make it hang, but I had drill issues, so I glued ties onto the top.)
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I gathered embellishments, buttons, paper-crafting items, gears and keys.
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After inserting sheets of music into the shapes and gluing trinkets here is the finished product.
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Easy enough…paint, cut sheet of music into the cookie cutter shape, glue it and embellishments to the ornament. You can create your own, special, ornaments to make your Christmas homemade.

Ready to hang on the tree. Have fun!

jj inherited her name and creativity from her grandmother. A love of reading and adventure took her to many wondrous places. Studying literature provided a solid foundation in which to express her ideas and storytelling became a part of her world. She wants to share with you all of the magic, so please enjoy pieces of her life through her tales.


Jewel Heist is a suspense story set during the holidays…

Diamonds used to be this girl’s best friend.

Jewelry designer Mary Keefe has been robbed–of a million dollars in diamonds belonging to her grandfather–by her own boyfriend, Conrad. Besides recovering the jewels, she’s got to conceive a baby within 5 days, to save her family’s legacy. Her friends have a plan, a singles cruise so Mary can find a sperm donor with the best qualities. The first mate could be the right choice–he rates a five on the Donor List. Then there’s John Wang, her neighbor in the adjoining room. Attraction sizzles between them and they’ve become friends, but he doesn’t act interested. Could be, she’s not his type.


For John Kajiyama, posing as Wang, Mary Keefe is just his type. She’s beautiful, funny and sweet…but is she innocent? Diamonds are missing and he must recover them for the insurance company. How far will he go to maintain his cover in this investigation?


Soon to be POD…get a hard copy this fall…. (Jewel Heist)

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Front Porch Saturday: My Village by Jennifer Wilck

This post first appeared on Fried Oreos on Monday, September 29, 2014.

They say it takes a village to raise a child, and after this past week, I’d definitely agree.

My village usually consists of my parents, who live nearby and are able to pitch in whenever and wherever I need them. When my kids were little, I had built-in babysitters twelve minutes away. They were available to meet the bus if I was running late, to carpool if I had to be in different places with different kids, and for the occasional date night.

Although my kids are older now, they still can’t drive themselves anywhere and it’s not uncommon for the two girls to need to be in two different places at the same time. For a while, my mom and I had a “Sunday calendar check,” where we coordinated schedules for the week.

But it’s not just my parents who are my village. It’s my friends, too, something I often forget. I was reminded of it, however, this past week.

We had a town tragedy this past week, and as is often the case, everyone pulled together to support each other. It was a lovely burst of light in an otherwise very dark week. What was so nice for me to see was the number of people who called to check on my child, who said they’d look out for my child and provided support for my child. Teachers and guidance counselors and clergy and friends all pulled together to let all of us know that we were not alone.

This weekend, my daughter and I had the chance to help out a friend and her mom with something fairly trivial, but it was nice to be part of someone else’s village for a change. We were able to help turn a chore into an adventure, to provide gentle guidance without forcing ourselves on anyone and to have a bit of fun in the process. It was a spur-of-the-moment opportunity, more like a social activity, but one with a purpose.

This week, my parents are away. There are no daily phone calls, no “Sunday calendar checks” and no one to pitch in spur-of-the-moment when I realize I double booked something (like that dental appointment I had to reschedule because of a physical booked too close together). Except I have my village. I may not call on them for the trivial stuff, but I know that they’re there if I need them.

And that’s awesome.


Fun Friday: Are Aliens Real? by Karen Michelle Nutt @KMNbooks

aliens are nearAre there Aliens? Through the centuries there have been numerous sightings.

There are Petroglyphs dating back thousands of years ago by ancient American Southwest Indians. According to Indian folklore, two objects collided in the sky and one crash-landed in the region below (Death Valley.) Local Indians stood by as men arrived from another ship to repair the damaged craft.

Colonial Massachusetts Governor Spots an UFO
In 1639, over the Charles River in Boston, John Winthrop made an entry in his journal about a UFO sighting, stating lights sped back and forth across the Charles River from Back Bay Fens to Charlestown.

The first highly publicized UFO sighting occurred on April 17, 1897, in a tiny Texan community called Auroa. This unique sighting occurred before the invention of the first airplane. The story: A slow moving spaceship crashed into a a windmill. When the authorities searched through the debris, they discovered an alien. They dubbed the pilot the “Martian pilot”, and buried the body in the cemetery.

1940s World War II:  Small metallic spheres and colorful balls of light were spotted and photographed by bomber crews. They called these sightings ‘foo fighters’.

One of the most popular sightings recorded was in 1947, about 30 miles north of Roswell, New Mexico. The US Army allegedly captured aliens and a flying saucer.  Later, it was explained away as a weather balloon. In 1978, S.T, Friedman reopened the investigation, making some believe the sighting to be real and the government tried to cover it up. Alien

Dec. 16. 195, Clarence Johnson, who was the designer of the F-104, U-2, and the SR-71, and his wife spotted a large Flying Wing over the Pacific from where they stood in Agoura. Around the same time, the crews aboard the WV-2 spotted the craft from Long Beach, CA USAF. It was later explained away as they saw a lenticular cloud even though Johnson didn’t believe the ruling to be correct.

1966,In Point Pleasant, West Virginia, people reported seeing winged humanoid creatures and other mysterious events that included UFO sighting. This is referred to the Mothman Prophcies.  (Did anyone happen to see Mothman, starring Richard Gere?)

1973 Skylab 3 UFO Encounter. Astronauts, Alan Bean, Owen Garriott and Jack Lousma spotted a UFO. Their evidence was blurry photographs of this said UFO.

1983 Copely Woods Encounter (a suburb of Indianapolis, Indiana) Hundreds of Basket-sized balls of light were spotted around a neighborhood. They left obvious marks, proving they were real.

1998 Graaff-Reinet sighting in South Africa: The Laubscher family videotaped a group of triangular craft, passing over Graff-Reinet. The crafts changed colors and circled one another before a larger gold-colored craft overtook the smaller crafts before disappearing into the clouds.

2001 on the New Jersey Turnpike, around 15 people stopped their cars to view light formations in the night sky. Two of the witnesses were police officers.

2014 Houston, Texas, people witnessed seeing a ring of lights during a thunderstorm. The event was captured on video.

So do you believe Aliens have visited our planet?  Have you seen a UFO? Please do share. :)

About the Author:

Karen Michelle Nutt resides in California with her husband, three fascinating children, and houseful of demanding pets. Jack, her Chihuahua/Yorkshire terrier is her writing buddy and sits long hours with her at the computer.

Her new passion is creating book covers for Western Trail Blazers and Rebecca J. Vickery Publishing. In her spare time, she reviews books for PNR-Paranormal Romance Reviews.

Whether your reading fancy is paranormal, historical or time travel, all her stories capture the rich array of emotions that accompany the most fabulous human phenomena—falling in love.

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Front Porch Saturday–Cowboy Dreams

I dreamed I was standing at the edge of a cliff with a man. I was confused about which direction to go. The man’s face, turned away, gave me a shadowed glimpse. Only his cowboy boots were clearly visible, but I knew my father stood beside me because of the comfortable silence and the strength, trust we share. A link that has always been present and has never needed vocalization….”it is what it is”.

The next day the dream nagged me. Since his brain surgery, a result of a head injury from hitting a beam in the barn, his memory had deteriorated. He went from total freedom to being able to drive a mere five miles from home and making notes on a pad of paper. His world has drastically changed. My worry for him is constant.

I called (Facetime), just to check in and relieve the pestering worry from my disturbing dream. I offered my services to help manage, feed the animals or whatever needed to be done. The commute is long, but nothing could keep me away–if my dad needed me.

I asked what he was doing, all the while anticipating the answer.




“Watching a western,” he said.

It has been a year since his surgery and during his down time he watches westerns. My mother complains about the gunplay, the smack, smash, ongoing battle noises. “It’s constant,” she said.

I had to know, to find out why he had a fascination with westerns. As a child/teen/young adult I never once observed him engrossed in a western (cowboy) movie. Was this an aberration of his brain injury?

“Dad, you like westerns don’t you?”

“Yes.” In the background I glimpsed a deep voiced man telling a dirty cowpoke to drop his gun.

“Why do you watch westerns all the time?”

“Because they remind me of the past, my past. They make me happy.”

Tears clogged my throat.

I discovered during his youth he watched the great western movies (sorry I can’t recall the titles). My mom showed me a black and white photo of him as a child dressed in western gear. His white blonde hair stuck out from underneath the hat. A kerchief had been tied around his neck and a tiny pair of cowboy boots completed the outfit.

He sought a happier time, a time when watching westerns was a simple method of being happy, of remembering.



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Museful Monday – Change is in the Wind By Robyn Seitz

It is said change is always in the wind.  I’d call it more of a tornado than a wind.  Change comes quick and furious, takes my breath away and leaves me stunned while I pick up the pieces of what is left.

The kids have gone back to school.  I recall the Staples commercials of last year and a few years before where they played a snippet of the Christmas tune “It’s the most wonderful time of the year”.  I thought the commercials were humorous, but I wondered if some parents actually think it’s great when they go back.  I have no doubt for some parents financially it’s a Godsend since it would reduce the cost of childcare.  I don’t like the first day or week of school.  I think I’m more afraid and nervous than the kids are.  Do I know the teacher?  Is he/she going to treat my child fairly this year?  Perhaps those concerns were born of a few bad experiences we had in the school system.  Will they be teased for that outfit?  Did I get everything they need?  The stress around Christmas holidays feels like a walk in the park compared to this.

This year, my oldest went to high school.  She has to walk nearly to the other end of our small town instead of just a few blocks away.  She didn’t want to go.  She came home the first day and declared she wanted to go back to Central.  She hated every minute of the first day and then the 2nd and 3rd.  Sorry, how is this supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year?

That’s just last week.  Since they say change is in the wind, I know more is coming.  Life experience says change is not done ravaging me.  Some people don’t handle significant change well and I have no problem admitting I’m one of them.  I’m disappointed I passed that trait on to my daughter.  I’m sure she’ll adjust, but it’s a killer watching her tormented this way.

We’re back to school, figuring out the new routine and trying to keep up with the normal day to day grind.  Until something else changes and this pattern starts all over again.

To all of you facing change – good or bad – good luck and best wishes.


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Front Porch Saturday: I Have A New Book! by Jennifer Wilck

I’ve been a busy bee lately, working on many family activities, getting ready for the start of school and planning a HUGE fundraiser. And in the midst of all of this, I’m excited to announce that my next book is coming out! I hope Sandra won’t mind if I tell you about it here. ☺


Miriam’s Surrender is releasing September 10. It’s the second book in my Women of Valor series (now that there’s more than one, the series has an official name—yay!). The first one was The Seduction of Esther. Both books can be read as standalone contemporary romances, although my publisher is running a temporary sale on The Seduction of Esther ($.99).


Here’s some information about Miriam’s Surrender: Josh Lowenstein is a successful architect, hired to redesign the alumni club of a posh, private school in New York. He is strong, capable and knows the best way to do everything. Except let another woman in.

Miriam Goldberg is the Assistant Director of Outreach, and is Josh’s day-to-day contact for the redesign. She’s taken care of everyone around her, and forgotten how to let someone else take care of her.

With a tumultuous history, neither one is prepared to work together. As they get to know each other, the animosity disappears, but Josh is hiding something from Miriam and its discovery has the possibility of destroying their relationship. Only when they are both able to let the other in, and release some of the control they exert over everything, will they be able to see if their love can survive.

I’d love for you to check out The Seduction of Esther while it’s on sale, and Miriam’s Surrender when it’s available on September 10.



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